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Originally Posted by fairy
and i repeat as well....
its not about post count to me...(and i dont like it when ppl think it is) im just sad that it happened because to me it seems like its not appreciated...
anyway, i didnt say that i speak for ALL members who post there, i said i speak for alot of members who post there and they TOLD ME...
they surely know that they are free to speak their minds but they dont do it because it doesnt matter anyway...plus youre saying youre doing whats best for the entire community but how do you really know it is? was there a vote, was there even someone asking what the 'community' thinks about it?
im not saying that you dont do whats best for the ENTIRE community and i understand that you are the mods and you make the rules...and just because im disagreeing doesnt mean i dont respect what youre doing or that it is alot of work but you cant speak for an ENTIRE community either...but okay thats the system, someone has to make the rules and we have to accept them...thats the way it goes and thats fine..
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there have been many rules that were put in place because of suggestions from members...
that's why we have this section...
the mods can't be everywhere all the time...
sometimes a member has a thought about how the forums can be run better, or a suggestion regarding a section or subforum...
as a team, we look at those suggestions, discuss them, and determine if it's in the best interest of the community as a whole...
no one ever said we speak for the entire community...
we are just trying to do what's best for the community...
if we put this up for debate, there would have never been a resolution...
and even if there were a vote, there would have been people that were upset by the outcome...
there are always going to be people that object...
finally, no one is saying sidewalk cafe doesn't count, because if we felt that way, this section wouldn't be here...
if you ask me personally, alot of the threads in H&S are useless...
sure, i post in there from time to time, but if the entire section went away, it wouldn't matter to me...
i come to this forum because i want to talk to other people about fashion...
my feeling is there are tons of other forums around if you want to talk about your period, what smilie are you, what are you having for breakfast, etc.
i do understand, however, that it's part of tFS, and that many members go there to take a break, meet and learn more about other members...
you keep repeating that it isn't about post count, yet that's all you keep talking about...
if it doesn't matter, then move on...
your contributions to the forum shouldn't hinge on a number, or the lack thereof...