model mom ...

That is a great analogy!!! And it's true.
Priestess ... We are constantly removing those types of comments and PM'ing the members who post them, but with 60,000 members, hundreds and hundreds of posts a day and only about 40 moderators, we miss a lot ... we simply cannot be everywhere all the time.
So we ask the membership to be our eyes. If you see this sort of comment, feel free to report the post (see the link under the avatar of the poster) ... which will automatically PM all the mods of that forum and someone will step in and take a look at it. It's strictly confidential ... so they don't know that it was even reported.